Question: How do you love negative people who are toxic to be around?
Answer: There are three steps to this process, all leading to unconditional love.
1. Connect to your internal source of unconditional love, energy, and intuition daily. Wether it's through meditation, a mindful walk or journaling, the life within you will help you feel loved and supported.
2. Vow to disengage from YOUR portion of the dynamic. Do you listen too long? Do you do too much for them? Do you believe their devaluing words? Do you fight back, feeding a no-win power struggle? Identify your part and stop.
3. Trust yourself. If you remain healthy around a sick person for long enough, either they will change or you will be urged to get some distance from them. I don't care if it's your mother - life's too short for decade after decade of negativity.
Just because we love someone doesn't mean we have to let them hurt us. In fact, the only way to really love them is to take care of ourselves, rather than leaving it up to them.
God Bless.
Answer: There are three steps to this process, all leading to unconditional love.
1. Connect to your internal source of unconditional love, energy, and intuition daily. Wether it's through meditation, a mindful walk or journaling, the life within you will help you feel loved and supported.
2. Vow to disengage from YOUR portion of the dynamic. Do you listen too long? Do you do too much for them? Do you believe their devaluing words? Do you fight back, feeding a no-win power struggle? Identify your part and stop.
3. Trust yourself. If you remain healthy around a sick person for long enough, either they will change or you will be urged to get some distance from them. I don't care if it's your mother - life's too short for decade after decade of negativity.
Just because we love someone doesn't mean we have to let them hurt us. In fact, the only way to really love them is to take care of ourselves, rather than leaving it up to them.
God Bless.
posted by The Energy Coach at 1:39 PM
3 Comments:
Kim you have helped me learn and apply this process to more than one person and I can say with a great degree of certainty that it works...consistancy is the key :)
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SIDE NOTE: :)
ONE MORE DAY!!!!!!!!!!! I AM SO EXCITED!!! ALOHA
perfect advice. thanks for continuing to share your amazing energy and wisdom.
I am grateful for this reflection because it is difficult for me to distance myself from toxic people, especially when they are, for instance, married to me! When I feel the need for distance, as self-protection, I tend to just cut him out entirely, avoiding interactions with him at all costs. I feel so cruel acting that way, not to mention that it is terribly impractical. Maybe I can find a way to just strengthen my spiritual core, so less of his toxicity affects me. Maybe.
Bobbye
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